Changing Nature of Marriage in India

Introduction:

Marriage in India, traditionally regarded as a sacred, lifelong, and socially sanctioned union, has witnessed substantial changes in form, functions, and values over time. Influences like modernization, urbanization, legal reforms, and education have transformed marriage patterns. Sociologists like André Béteille, M.N. Srinivas, Patricia Uberoi, and Leela Dube have analyzed these shifts from various lenses.

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1. Shift from Arranged to Love Marriages

Patricia Uberoi in her work "Family, Kinship and Marriage in India" (1993) highlighted the growing trend of love marriages, especially in urban India, driven by individual choice and romantic love.
Example: Rising number of love marriages in metropolitan cities like Mumbai, Bengaluru, and Delhi.

2. Inter-caste and Inter-religious Marriages

M.N. Srinivas discussed how urbanization and Sanskritization have blurred caste boundaries to some extent, making inter-caste marriages more visible.
Special Marriage Act (1954) has provided a legal framework for inter-caste and inter-religious unions.
Example: Bollywood celebrities and urban professionals increasingly opting for inter-caste marriages.

3. Delayed Marriages and Rising Marriage Age

Economic independence of women, pursuit of higher education, and career aspirations have led to delayed marriages.
André Béteille in "Studies in Agrarian Social Structure" noted the growing individualization in urban settings influencing marriage decisions.
Example: Median age at marriage for women in urban India rising from 19 (1981 Census) to over 22 (NFHS-5).

4. Increase in Divorce Rates and Marital Dissolution

Leela Dube in her book "Women and Kinship" (1997) emphasized the role of women’s autonomy and changing gender relations in altering marital stability.
Legal reforms like the Hindu Marriage Act (1955) have made divorce easier.
Example: NCRB data shows a sharp rise in divorce petitions filed in family courts in urban India.

5. Rise of Companionate and Egalitarian Marriages

André Béteille highlighted a growing trend towards equality and companionship in urban middle-class marriages.
Spouses are now expected to share emotional support, decision-making, and even household tasks.
Example: Working couples in IT hubs like Pune and Hyderabad practicing egalitarian roles in marriage.

6. Changing Dowry Practices

Although legally prohibited, dowry persists, but in some contexts, it is now being replaced by negotiated exchanges like "gifts" or "voluntary offerings".
Feminist sociologists like Leela Dube have criticized the commodification of marriage through dowry.
Example: High dowry cases reported from states like Bihar and Uttar Pradesh despite legal prohibitions.

7. Growth of Alternative Marriage Forms

Live-in relationships, late marriages, and even voluntary singlehood are emerging, especially in urban India.
Legal recognition of live-in relationships by courts is redefining traditional notions of marriage.
Example: Supreme Court judgments granting legal protection to live-in couples under Article 21.

8. Technological Influence on Mate Selection

Online matrimonial websites and dating apps like Shaadi.com and Tinder are reshaping mate selection, blending traditional criteria with modern preferences.
Example: Urban youth increasingly relying on online platforms to find partners.

Critical Reflection:

Despite these transformations, marriage in India continues to retain its cultural significance, especially in rural areas where traditional norms like endogamy, caste considerations, and family consent still dominate.

Conclusion:

The institution of marriage in India reflects a dynamic blend of continuity and change. As observed by M.N. Srinivas, André Béteille, and Patricia Uberoi, marriage has evolved to accommodate new socio-economic realities while retaining core cultural values. The Indian marriage system today stands at the crossroads of tradition and modernity.